Beginning with the end in mind
Over the last week I’ve been faced with two funerals. The one of a man who lived his life with little to no regard for God and the other a woman who was a devoted follower of Jesus.
The environment of the funerals and attitudes of the two families were as different as night and day.
While both families grieved their earthly loss, the family of the man was filled with grief, concern, and question over the man’s eternity. All their hopes hinged upon one brief moment where, two weeks previous to the man’s death, he agreed to prayer with my wife and me. (A Note: We do believe in deathbed conversions, but they are always an uncomfortable way to go, because the key issue is the heart, and that no one can judge except God.)
So, instead of confidence on this man being in heaven, there was question and confusion. Why? Not because he couldn’t get saved at the last minute, but because it’s sometimes hard to reconcile the person we knew them to be (living a Godless and selfish life) from a person who sincerely realized they need Jesus and at the last minute prayed and received him as their King. Was it just an act of desperation of a dying man? Did he mean it in his heart or was he just trying anything he could to prepare himself for whatever may come beyond this life? Only God knows.
The family of the woman also grieved their earthly loss, but with the confidence and joy that she was in a better place, that she was in heaven.
This confidence and belief was based on more than a last minute prayer of a dying and desperate person. It was based on the fact that this woman began with the end in mind. She not only believed in God, but lived the life. There was no last minute turning to God after a lifetime of Godless selfish living. There was a reassuring legacy giving proof of where the heart really stood with God.
I want to encourage everyone to think about their lives with the end in mind. What do we want to be known for? What do we want people to say about us when we’re gone? What kind of feelings do we want to leave them with about where we will spend eternity (confidence or confusion; heaven or hell)?
The answers to these questions not only are of great concern and value for you the individual, but for all those that love you and are in your sphere of contact.
We all sense the weight of eternity... the Bible says GOD HAS PLACED ETERNITY IN OUR HEARTS. We all sense that we will live forever, the question is where? God's given us that answer... more on that next time... why Jesus and not any other way? Where's the fairness in the gospel?
The environment of the funerals and attitudes of the two families were as different as night and day.
While both families grieved their earthly loss, the family of the man was filled with grief, concern, and question over the man’s eternity. All their hopes hinged upon one brief moment where, two weeks previous to the man’s death, he agreed to prayer with my wife and me. (A Note: We do believe in deathbed conversions, but they are always an uncomfortable way to go, because the key issue is the heart, and that no one can judge except God.)
So, instead of confidence on this man being in heaven, there was question and confusion. Why? Not because he couldn’t get saved at the last minute, but because it’s sometimes hard to reconcile the person we knew them to be (living a Godless and selfish life) from a person who sincerely realized they need Jesus and at the last minute prayed and received him as their King. Was it just an act of desperation of a dying man? Did he mean it in his heart or was he just trying anything he could to prepare himself for whatever may come beyond this life? Only God knows.
The family of the woman also grieved their earthly loss, but with the confidence and joy that she was in a better place, that she was in heaven.
This confidence and belief was based on more than a last minute prayer of a dying and desperate person. It was based on the fact that this woman began with the end in mind. She not only believed in God, but lived the life. There was no last minute turning to God after a lifetime of Godless selfish living. There was a reassuring legacy giving proof of where the heart really stood with God.
I want to encourage everyone to think about their lives with the end in mind. What do we want to be known for? What do we want people to say about us when we’re gone? What kind of feelings do we want to leave them with about where we will spend eternity (confidence or confusion; heaven or hell)?
The answers to these questions not only are of great concern and value for you the individual, but for all those that love you and are in your sphere of contact.
We all sense the weight of eternity... the Bible says GOD HAS PLACED ETERNITY IN OUR HEARTS. We all sense that we will live forever, the question is where? God's given us that answer... more on that next time... why Jesus and not any other way? Where's the fairness in the gospel?
