The Great Disconnect

All you have to do is hang around a church long enough and you’ll see people come to Jesus, be really excited, get involved serving the Lord, and then after a while they begin to fizzle out in their passion for the Lord and His mission. They become discouraged, discontent, and ultimately disconnected.

At Open Arms Community Church we’ve been doing a series of messages on “Growing Closer To God”. Last weekend we addressed the role of prayer, the week before that the role of Bible reading, and this coming week the role of Community.

Whether out of emotions or just plain laziness, we can watch “the great disconnect” slowly begin to take place in the life of a Christian. It’s not an overnight thing. It’s like the song by Casting Crowns called “Slow Fade”. We don’t fall away from Jesus in a day. It takes time and little backward steps, small compromises here and there, and the next thing you know we don’t feel or hear Jesus anymore, we don’t have the passion and compassion we used to have. The love has grown cold toward the Lord, my church family, and the lost.

How does it happen?

As I mentioned it could be emotional. I may have some negative feelings (offense, depression, unmet expectations, etc) that cause me to become focused on me and how I feel and less on the Lord and what He thinks and says.

It could also be busyness. I may be so overloaded and busy in my schedule that I just “don’t have the time” to read my Bible, pray, or go to cell group or church, or even if I have the time, I’m so worn out I “don’t feel like” going today. Then today turns into next week, next month, and pretty soon, not at all.

It may also be laziness. I don’t have the desire and self-discipline to get out and do. This has a lot to do with an indifferent attitude toward the things of God (a lack of the Fear of the Lord). We don’t value the things of God as of first importance. We would say that they’re important to us, but by our actions we see that doing what is easy and self-gratifying is more important.

There are three areas where “the great disconnect” can start and if not dealt with it will take over all three.

First, time with God in his Word (reading our Bible). If we become slack in connecting with God in his Word then we will be spiritually malnourished. Jesus said, “man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds forth from the mouth of God” (Matthew 4). If we are not feeding on God’s word faithfully you can easily understand the negative effect; go try to function every day, doing all you do, with just one meal a day (or week) for a year. It won’t happen. This is one area of “the great disconnect”.

Second, time with God in prayer. As the Word of God (Bible) is food for our spirit, prayer is like breath or water to the body. The Bible uses symbols of air and water for the Holy Spirit. What happens if our body/flesh doesn’t get air or water? Spiritually speaking the same result takes place to our spirit/relationship with God if we do not spend time in prayer (which is simply communication/conversation with God… a breathing/drinking in of His presence and power in our life). You can see how without this area being strong and healthy, without drinking/breathing in enough we will suffer weakness, disorientation, and even death.

Third, time with God’s people (Community). Community, sharing life together, is no easy thing. It’s hard. People let us down, hurt our feelings, demand time and resources from us. People are weird and do things differently. Community is tough, but it is where God teaches us, stretches us, and molds us beyond our self. We learn to see things we didn’t see before, and even things we’ve seen before we learn to see differently. We learn to love differences, we learn to forgive and be patient, we learn to think of others and sacrifice to bless and help others. There is so much that Community accomplishes in us.

When my son, Mike, had a broken leg the doctor told us that after a certain point in the process of healing he would need to start walking on the leg while it was still in the cast. The doctor said that this would strengthen the bone because of the pressure. That’s kind of what Community is like. It puts pressure on us (broken people) to help us heal properly, healthy, and strong. God doesn’t want us to just get a little bit of healing. He wants us to be functional.

Lastly, fourth, is time in God’s work/mission (ministry/mission). Unless we’re serving the Lord we’re serving ourselves. Unless we’re involved serving the Lord we will loose our passion and compassion. We may feel pity toward people and their circumstances, but we will not be inclined to get involved in helping and being part of the solution.

Let’s face it ministry/mission is not easy. It’s hard work, it’s difficult, it’s sometimes painful, it’s inconvenient, and it regularly costs something, but it’s here that God helps us experience life to the full, life beyond me. It’s hear that I find true life, a life worth living. It’s in these hard and difficult places that I grow and am stretched and become so much more than I ever would just living for me/self. There is something about giving of my time, energy, talent, and money that changes me, grows me, in a way that nothing else will.

You can’t separate any one of these components. They are all important.

What is the fruit of “the great disconnect”?

Usually people who become disconnected from God, His mission, and His people become discouraged, disgruntled/bitter/critical, cynical, self-absorbed, skewed in perception and perspective, and begin to get so disoriented to God that they have a hard time finding their way back if they ever do at all. They often end up laying all blame on others (the church people, the church leadership, all Christians, etc.) and rarely ever take any kind of personal responsibility for their condition and thus are rarely inclined to take the necessary steps and make the necessary changes and sacrifices to restore themselves into right relationship. The fault is always everyone else. The weird thing here is the lack of common sense… how come it’s the people that do/give the least that scream the most? And it’s those who have the most that give the least?

We begin to fall prey to satan’s strategies to get us to be so consumed with ourselves that we miss all that God wants to do in and through us, thus widening the gap.

Remember, satan prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour (1Peter 5). I learned some time ago that lions can’t distinguish the individual parts of a group/herd, so they will stalk a heard keeping their eye on the blob (herd) and watch for an individual animal to become separated/disconnected from the group, and then they will attack that single animal rather than the whole herd.

Change starts with a single step. We have a gracious, merciful, and compassionate loving heavenly Father who is very forgiving and runs after us with open arms. God wants us to see our condition and what got us there and make the changes to walk right with Him.

It will not be an overnight fix, but it can start now, with a simple prayer and decision.

If we stick it out, our testimony will be one that can be used to encourage others who have fell prey to “the great disconnect”.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/986696/the_great_disconnect.html?cat=34

Good Apples and Bad Apples

Jesus taught you would know a tree by its fruit. He went further in the analogy to say that He was the vine/trunk and we (His followers) are the branches. He talked about the branch bearing fruit, good fruit, fruit that will last.

Paul continued this analogy and said that there are two trees, a cultivated tree (the tree of life) and the wild tree (a tree that leads to death. Hmm, could this be the tree of the knowledge of good and evil?).

He also stated that each branch (person) bears fruit according to the tree it is living out of. A branch that is living according to the wild tree (the selfishness of fallen man) will produce one kind of fruit (which is bad/sinful/wrong) and the branch living according to the tree of life (the Spirit) will produce another kind of fruit (which is right, just, love, joy, peace, etc.).

There is a whole lot of talk about producing good fruit, but the questions is: Where does the fruit come from?

The reality is the fruit comes from what’s inside the tree. The branch is an extension of that tree. The Fruit is what it is because of what is on the inside, not because it tries to be something different.

Another important thing to remember is that no branch is perfect; perfectly good or perfectly bad. There is no branch that is all good fruit. Even good branches have a few bad apples from time to time. There are very few branches that have all bad fruit. Even some of the worst of branches have at least a couple good apples here and there.

The key issue is what vine/tree am I (the branch) connected to? The kind of tree I’m a part of will determine the primary kind of fruit I produce. But, in the fallen broken world death does exist and so from time to time we will all have some bad apples even on the best of branches.

Do we accept the bad fruit? No! Do we cut the branch off and throw it away because of a bad fruit here and there? No! According to Jesus the only branch that was going to be cut off and thrown away was the branch that didn’t produce any fruit (John 15).

We need to aspire to be the best branch we can be, allowing the Holy Spirit of God to prune out those areas of our life that are unproductive branches, so we can be even more fruitful.

We also must remember that if the overwhelming majority of the fruit being produced in our life is bad fruit we really need to check and see if we are really connected to the right tree.

One more thing to remember is that growth and more fruit come because the branch allows the life of the tree to flow through it (it’s a giver), not hold on to it for itself. The more fruit bearing a branch is, the more the live of the tree is flowing through that branch, thus the greater the experience and fuller the life of that branch.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/970640/good_apples_and_bad_apples.html

Love Of The Truth

At Open Arms Community Church we’ve been going through a series called “Growing Closer To God”. Last weekend we discussed the topic of how studying God’s Word (the Bible) grows us closer to God.

We saw many warnings in the scripture about deceiving spirits at work in our world and deceptive teachings that will come. We also saw the antidote for the rampant deception in our world, a love of/for the truth.

When we use that phrase “love of/for the truth” we are to understand first that this has always been God’s expectation, that what we do in pursuing Him and obeying Him would be motivated by a loving relationship not religious duty. That’s the first and greatest command, to “love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength”.

We are also to understand that true love compels us to pursue. If we really “love” then we feel compelled. Whether you say, “I love my wife” or “I love ice cream”. Either way you feel compelled by that affection/affinity to pursue them.

You have to wonder what many Christians have in this Christian Faith, relationship or religion, because so many seem so unmotivated in pursuing God (reading His Word, obeying His Word, spending time with Him in prayer, and spending time with fellow saints).

So many seem to “Believe” in God/Jesus and do the obligatory “church attendance” (sometimes), but seem to resent the imposition that Jesus and His commands make on their lifestyle. They seem to have thought that following Jesus would simply be adding a little bit of religious duty to their pre-existing lifestyle, but Jesus tells us He came to give a whole new way of life (not just a few religious habits), so we should understand that there will not just be a few changes to our way of life, but a completely different way of life.

In following Jesus we may stay at the same place of work, but we may not. We may stay in the same geography, but we may not. God has a way of taking those who follow Him and changing their life drastically.

Why do some seem to have these powerful life changing experiences for life long and others not? Why do some seem so easily moved off coarse, but others are more stable and stay on track? The answer is simpler than we think.

In 2Thessalonians 2:1-10 we find God warning us that as the clock of earths existence winds down there will be an increase of deception. Spirits and spiritual teachers will come try to teach things that sound, feel, smell, and seem good, right, and true, but in fact are wrong, dangerous, and destructive.

God tells us in these verses that the people being deceived and ruined by the deception will go from bad to worse simply because of one thing… they did not love the truth. As we reject or just take lightly the truth, the easier we swallow satan’s lies and the harder it can be come to swallow God’s word.

That is the second thing we need to learn from this phrase “love of/for the truth”.

Jesus tells us His “word is truth”, that His word is “flawless and eternal”, and that those who “hear it and do what it says” are blessed, but those who “hear it and do not do what it says” fall under a lack of blessing, a curse, even destruction”. (Matthew 7)

The availability of God’s Word, especially to us in America and those with regular internet access, makes this truth all the more convicting and us all the more accountable/responsible to God for how seriously and diligently we pursue God and His truth.

God is at work in our world. He is moving and doing awesome things, but so is the devil, and unfortunately to many Christians are buying satan’s lies and living a less than Christian life; A life of which I do not know for sure the final outcome.


So, what do we do?

First, 2Timothy 2:15 tells us to “do your best to show yourself approved” or “diligently study to show yourself approved” by God in “rightly handling the word of truth”. Do we “rightly handle” the word? Not only are we to handle it “rightly” by understanding it accurately, but we’re also to handle it “rightly” by actually handling it, using it, not letting it sit on our shelf or the back of our toilet collecting dust.

Second, as we feed on this Word of Truth we will fulfill God’s command to “grow in the grace and KNOWLEDGE of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.” 2Peter 3:18

Thirdly, we must understand that there will be things in the Bible we don’t understand at first, but the more we read it and the more we live it, the more we will understand, but even after decades of following Jesus and studying the word of God, there is much we still don’t fully understand, so what do we do.

Deuteronomy 29:29 tells us the knowledge that is hidden belongs to God (that is His business), but the knowledge that is revealed (understood by men) is given to us so that we may do what it says, in other words OBEY IT.

If we do these things we will be blessed and are true disciples/followers of Jesus. If we do not do these things we are easy prey for satan and his minions, we are going to experience less than God’s best in life, and we may not be authentic disciples/followers of Jesus (we may fall into the category of simply believing in God, but still on our way to hell with satan who also believes in God. James 2).

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/967870/love_of_the_truth.html?cat=34

The Other Side Of Spiritual Warfare

There is much discussion in sermons and books on the subject of spiritual warfare. When the phrase is used the first things that come to mind are the devil and demons sneaking around doing bad things to us, or maybe motivating non-Christians to mistreat us, or maybe even orchestrating tragic circumstances. While all these may be a huge part of spiritual warfare there are two other sides of the spiritual warfare cube that are not talked about much, but we must understand if we’re going to persevere and win the battles we will most certainly face as we do God’s work.

The first “Other Side” I want to address is the side where “Christians” are used by the enemy. Christians that are well-meaning, but very misguided.

We don’t hear to often about this, but the reality is that Christians can oppose us. Fellow Christians can be the tool of the enemy against us. We see this exemplified in the book of Acts where the circumcised brothers (Christians) were coming against the Apostle Paul and his ministry to the uncircumcised brothers (Christians).

Not only did they not like that Paul was reaching out to them with the Gospel, but once that ministry was accepted and approved, the circumcised believers had the expectation that these new uncircumcised believers would get circumcised and when Paul taught against it, these circumcised believers got all nasty with Paul.

We see Paul teaching us in 2Timothy (in Vs 10 & 14 we see that Paul is writing about Christians) 22Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. 24And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. 25Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, 26and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.

Note Vs 26 “the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.”

Paul tells Timothy that there will be Christians (the elect) who will quarrel with and oppose him and he tells Timothy that these people are in the devils trap and are the devils captive to do his (the devil’s) will.

Fellow Christians, influenced by satan, fueled by pride, selfishness, worldliness, fear, prejudice, and so on can become quarrelsome, argumentative, and even oppose (resist) us and the work the Lord has us doing.

We may find ourselves at odds with a dear brother or sister in the Lord. We may find them saying and doing the most unbelievable things to us. They may speak evil, they may try to divide, and even purposefully hurt (emotionally or physically or financially).

We’re taught that we are to love these people, bless (not curse), forgive, gently instruct, and pray for these people to come to their senses and escape satan’s trap.

I can tell you from personal experience this is a very painful aspect of spiritual warfare; people who say “Love ya, brother!” turning around and being nasty or just abandoning the relationship.

We must be ready for this and ready to respond in a Christ-like manner.

Now, the second “other side” of spiritual warfare (perhaps as painful or more painful than the first), the side of Me.

That’s right! If a Christian can become influenced by satan and fueled by pride, selfish ambition, worldliness, fear, prejudice, and so on to the point of becoming quarrelsome, argumentative, and even resistant (opposing) to other Christians, then I, as a Christian, could be one of these. I could step into satan’s trap.

We hate to hear it, but the truth is that if we’re not humbly submitted to Jesus and His way of doing things and regularly checking ourselves we can get off coarse and start making decisions that put us at odds with God and other Christians doing Gods work. It’s this case where the old saying is true, “I’m my own worst enemy.”

The sad thing is, this side of spiritual warfare is the least understood and accepted. We like to be able to blame the devil for all that’s going, or non-Christians, or even other Christians, or at the least God, but not me. Surely I’m not my problem. Surely it’s not my attitude, words, or actions that are the cause of my problems. Surely I’ve not opened the door for the enemy to come in and work havoc.

It’s the hardest thing in the world to take personal responsibility and acknowledge that by our choices we’ve partnered/cooperated with the devil, we’ve taken his side and worked his work and yet, this is exactly what is happening in so many Christian’s lives.

The answer to this particular problem is simple to state, but hard to apply… Repent (change! Turn away from the wrong and back to the Jesus way, Confess your sin and ask forgiveness and accept forgiveness), Restore (work toward doing it the right way. This may include going to others and working at undoing what you’ve done and fix what got broke), Submit yourself wholly to God, and then resist the devil and he will flee!

These are two sides we don’t hear much about, but if we’re going to succeed in spiritual warfare we must understand all the players and all the battlefronts, and the first battlefront of spiritual warfare is our own heart (but that is another message).

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/950155/the_other_side_of_spiritual_warfare.html

Submission in Serving

At Open Arms Community Church we’re doing a series of messages right now called “Growing Closer To God”. In this series we’ve recognized that unfortunately most Christians lives look no different from their Non-Christian counterpart, and sometimes look even worse.

We’ve been looking at various attitudes and behaviors we can engage in to grow closer to God and become the person He made us to be and experience the life He desires us to have.

Last weekend we discussed the topic of serving/giving. We saw that serving and giving are synonyms. When you give you’re serving, when you serve you’re giving.

Something that I wanted to share on is the issue of HOW we serve.

Being a leader in a church (a volunteer organization; aka: an organization run mostly by volunteer help) I deal with people serving all the time and I regularly have to deal with the issue of people wanting to serve as long as it’s “their way”.

As a Christian we’re called to serve and when we serve we’re called to serve as unto the Lord. In other words, what I’m doing I’m doing for the Lord, for His approval (so I should give Him my best), and submitted to Him. It’s not for me or about me.

I often see people want to serve as long as things are done their way. Here in lies one of the reasons we don’t grow and benefit from our acts of service. Serving isn’t about WHAT we want or HOW we want it. It’s about WHO we’re serving and what they want and how they want it.

If I go to serve someone and will only do it my way, how is that a blessing to them? Did it really help? How is that growing me? I’ve stayed the same.

This doesn’t mean we can’t offer our insights and suggestions, but ultimately, as a servant, it’s not what I want, but what they want that determines what and how I serve in a particular situation or place.

I’ve seen some people not only not submit to the vision and desires of those they were supposedly serving, but I’ve even seen some try to bully, manipulate, and control by withdrawing their service, support, and contributions until a thing is done the way they want it done. This is not serving/giving. This is selfish and immature. It is robbing our self and the others from the blessing and growth God intends for all to experience.

When we serve I want to encourage us to keep a humble servants attitude and remember that if we’re really serving others then it is not about what we want or how we want it. It is about what they want and how they want it, because we’re serving THEM, not us.

Ultimately when we serve we remember that it’s not even them we’re serving, but the Lord, so we should not only serve humbly and out of love and care for the other person/people, but we should also serve with excellence.

There is a lot said about excellence, but I like to use this definition… giving your best or your all, and nothing less. Jesus said, “love others as you love yourself”. Paul went on to say, “you are not serving men, but are serving the Lord.” Jesus said, “when you did it to the least of my brothers, you did it unto me.” So, if I’m preparing a meal, giving a gift, running sound at church, mowing a lawn, teaching the children, or cleaning a toilet I’m to do it all for the glory and pleasure of Jesus.

I don’t think Jesus would be pleased if I went in to serve someone, but instead did it my way and really served myself.

This is where we apply the scriptures of “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” or “consider others better than yourself”.

Again, it’s not that we don’t have good ideas and can’t share them, but there comes a point where we accept the desire and will of those we serve, otherwise it’s not service it’s rebellion.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/949841/submission_in_serving.html?cat=34

God Finding You In The Moment

Not long ago I wrote about finding God in the moment, becoming aware of His activity in our daily lives and work in cooperation with Him.

In a series we’re doing at Open Arms Community Church called “Growing Closer To God” we’ve been discussing different factors involved in us really going deeper with God and growing up into the greater things God has for us.

We just covered the topic of “Serving/Giving” and in particular “Sacrificial Serving/Giving”, and it caused me to question… What about God finding us in the moment?

I wonder… with all the busyness, agendas, plans, hustle, and chaos in our lives are we available to God?

In any given moment can God interrupt us and use us or just share with us?

So often we’re concerned about finding God in the moment, but the real question is can God find us in the moment?

The greatest obstacle in experiencing God and God’s best in my life is not the Devil, it’s not someone else, it’s not work; it is me (self). I’m the one who busies myself. I’m the one who takes on all the extra stuff. I’m the one who sets the agenda. I’m the one who chooses what to do or not do. I’m the one who decides what I will pursue and chase after.

All to often we’re concerned about whether God will show up and move, but what we really need to be concerned about is whether we’re available to God.

It’s not an easy focus to keep. With all the cares of this life (the pursuit of pleasure, the deceitfulness of wealth, etc; Matthew 13), chaos, distractions, and so on it’s easy to become disoriented and out of touch with God.

There are simple disciplines and attitudes that help us “stay available” to God. Daily Prayer, daily Bible reading, and the constant asking of the question, “God what do you want to do here (in me and through me)?”.

When it comes to the topic of Serving/Giving we’ve got to be in touch with God so as not to miss those opportunities God gives us to shine the light of His love and truth.

When it come to giving/serving “sacrificially” we really have to be in touch with God so as not to give in to selfishness, fear/doubt, or worldly wisdom and resist God and what He wants to do in and through us. Only by the presence and power of God do we have a chance of overcoming the Old Self and the Ways of This World.

One more thing… Should God find us in the moment, what would He find us doing? Are we about the Fathers business or other business? Are we living in such a way that would please and honor Him, or the opposite? Would we be in a position to be used of the Lord?

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/949683/god_finding_you_in_the_moment.html

Submission, the secret to success

Everybody wants success! Success in their relationships (with God, spouse, parents, siblings, children), success in society and the workplace, and so on.

Everybody wants love, peace, joy, and so on.

What if it wasn't as hard as we think to find ALL of this?

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Submission, the secret to success